What do you do if your partner too controlling you?
Find out if you're in a co-dependent rlationship, and how to foster a healthy,affirming partnership. Codependency occurs when a capable adult relinquishes control of her lif and her happiness to another person, believing incorrectly thather passivity is somehow going to give her what she want.Falling in love usually starts off with a wonderful cocktail of hormones and joyjuices like adreline, oxytocin and pheromones coursing thought our system.They leave us tingling, excited, and distracted from anything but the object ofour desire.If, however, we dont adjust that obsession over time to allow for reality to get a firmfoothhold, we can be plagued by feelings of lack of control, despair and longing. Ifthe relationship continues, one person or the other can become lost, diminished, andunable to make wise choices about asserting their right and staying true to who they areCodependency is an unnatural outcome....Recognizing the signs of codependencyYour emotion Aren't Your Own....Most of the time you are feeling extremes of hurst, anger and powerleness oreurophoria and excitement...based mostly on another person's action or inaction.Your life is Controlled by someone else....You find yourself thinking/ saying, "If only he would...then I would......Your center of power is outside of you; you make decissions based on someone else'swants and desires.
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